The Hot Girl’s Guide to Creating a Ritual with Candles

The Hot Girl’s Guide to Creating a Ritual with Candles - Vanam Studios


If you light a candle while tidying, drinking tea, or finishing your skincare, you already have the start of a ritual.

In clean beauty and low-tox living, candles are more than ambiance. They are a grounding tool. A sensory signal to pause, soften, and reconnect.

Use this guide to build a candle ritual that fits your aesthetic and supports your wellness goals.

Why Candles Are More Than Décor

The right candle has a role beyond appearance. It supports your routine and shapes your mood.

  • Shift your mood in seconds

  • Anchor daily habits

  • Reward intentional time

The clean girl approach is about curation. Less clutter. More clarity. Lighting a candle becomes a simple, repeatable choice that makes daily life feel intentional.

Start with a Clean-Burning Foundation

Paraffin candles release petroleum-based soot into the air. This affects air quality and comfort.

Vanam candles are made with pure beeswax. Beeswax helps clean the air as it burns. Our fragrances are phthalate free, paraben free, and paraffin free.

Why choose beeswax?

  • Cleaner burn with fewer headaches

  • Natural, gentle scent throw

  • Golden flame with a warm glow

Build a Ritual Around Your Mood

Tie your ritual to how you want to feel. Ask yourself:

  • Do I need grounding after a long day

  • Do I want playful energy while getting ready

  • Am I creating time for reflection or indulgence

Examples

Morning: Light Mindful Elation while journaling or stretching. Vanilla, amber, and tonka bean bring warmth and optimism.

Evening: Burn Mindful Renewal during skincare or reading. Cedarwood, patchouli, and eucalyptus signal your body to slow down.

Layer the Senses

Rituals work best when they engage more than one sense. Combine simple cues that your body remembers.

  • Lighting. Dim overheads and let the flame flicker

  • Sound. Soft jazz, rain sounds, or a calm podcast

  • Touch. A robe, dry brushing, or body oil

How to Make It a Habit

Start with one daily moment. Use the same candle during that time. The flame and scent will become your signal to relax.

  • Keep your candle visible

  • Pair it with an existing habit

  • Keep matches or a lighter nearby

Our Favourite Candles for Rituals

Mindful Elation. Warm, indulgent, and playful. Vanilla, amber, and tonka bean create a cozy mood with an uplifting edge. Picture friends over, music playing, and shared conversation while getting ready.

Mindful Renewal. Crisp and grounding. Cedarwood, patchouli, and eucalyptus support a spa-level reset at home. Calm, clear, and restorative.

Both use pure beeswax with a touch of soy for an even burn. They are free from paraffin, phthalates, and parabens.